lol Getting them is great!! but keeping them now that’s a whole other thing all together. Based on the Biblical Principles of Love. And just Male female expectactions I decided to make this List. The Rules of Romance. If you have the basic Chemistry and consider yourselves to be each other’s best friend then there is truly no reason for these Not to work our side of the only enemy for any relationship which is FEAR!. Fear Happens when trust has been broken and my friends there is no set of rules for getting around that.

RULE 1- First Rule of Romance is LISTENING - If you don’t pay attention to what the other person is saying you will never hear what i like to call the “little things”. Fellas I know you hate hearing your girl complain about work or rather the other women at work…lol. But if you Listen you will hear what she is really trying to say. Sometimes their bad day is an opportunity for you to make it better. 

Rule 2-  Action -Action truly does speak louder Than words. What is “I love you” if all you do is sit around playing X-box and never make any plans to woo the person your in a relationship with? Again Listen for the “Little things” then put them into action. Sometimes its as simple as a walk in the Park or making the effort to go someplace new and the willingness to try new things (outside if the realm of sex). a change of scenery and pace can make all the difference in the World.

Rule 3- Effort - Effort and action may seem like the same thing but their not. Action is doing things with the other person. Effort is self-maintenance. The joke is that Single Women/Men make an Effort while Taken Women/Men just say Eff-it…lol. Eff-it Vs. Effort is very plain to see. Always think back to what you were wearing and what mood you were in when you first met the person you were with. You were attractive in that moment. and Chances are the person you are with is expecting “Day 1” you to show up more often than not.

Rule 4 - Chivalry - For the guys. Opening doors, helping w/ Jackets and coats, Pulling out the occasional chair, and Walking on the outside of the street can gain you major points!!! Make her feel special, and let her know you care by taking care of her. A real man knows how to treat a woman. 

Rule 5 - CupCaking -  Not all romance has to take place in person. Get your conversation game up!! Be interesting, have something to talk about other than yourself from time to time. Find out what your love interest is interested in and learn. It may not be something that interests you but it doesn’t mea you can’t learn about it. Soon you will see for yourself why that person is interested in it. And that could wind up being another reason to fall in love with them. (You never know).

Ok More Rules to Come!!!!….. To Be Continued!!!!!